Therapy for the overthinkers, comparison queens & self-doubt spiralers
📍Hanover, ONtario or virtual
Therapy for the overthinkers, comparison queens & self-doubt spiralers
Trust Yourself Again
Overthinking? Handled
Self Doubt: Cancelled
2SLGBTQIA+ and
Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapy
Trust Yourself Again Overthinking? Handled Self Doubt: Cancelled 2SLGBTQIA+ and Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapy
📍Hanover, ONtario or virtual
Self-Doubt? Out. Confidence? In.
You deserve to feel like yourself. Fully, unapologetically you.
I blend practical strategies with a little tough love and a lot of understanding, so the 2am overthinking finally quiets down. Replay that conversation in your head one last time…then let’s move forward, and start trusting the voice that’s really you.
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I work with folks who overthink every little thing, doubt themselves until the early am, and feel like their brain just won’t stop running the same tape. Therapy with me is about actually figuring out how to deal with that spiral and trust yourself instead of the voice that keeps telling you you’re not enough.
We mix real talk, practical tools, and a little sass so you can finally stop replaying the conversation you had with the parcel delivery person, wondering if they hate you for not saying “hi”, let go of obsessing over a photo where you are overexamining your hair, smile, body, and stop comparing yourself to everyone else and start feeling like you again.
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We start with you, not just the problem. Overthinking, anxiety, self-doubt, body-image worries, comparison. They can all get tangled together. We slow things down and get curious about what sits underneath them: the expectations you’ve absorbed, how you learned to see yourself, and the parts of you that have gotten used to staying small.
My work is relational and collaborative. Sometimes we follow a feeling, a pattern, a memory, or even a random pop-culture moment that hits harder than expected. The work can be winding. That’s okay. The point is getting to know yourself deeply enough that your own voice becomes easier to recognize.
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I work primarily with overthinking, self-doubt, body image, comparison, and the exhausting habit of questioning yourself over and over.
My approach is relational, collaborative, and depth-oriented. I draw from humanistic, existential, and transpersonal frameworks, including Life Process Transformation, while also bringing in practical tools when they’re useful.
Welcome, I’m Klaasje
(sounds like Klash-a)
Unpack. Untangle. OWN IT.
How I can help.
It’s not just anxiety or self-doubt. It’s the sweaty palms when you’re talking to someone, your mind going completely blank in a meeting, obsessing over what someone might think of a tiny thing you said, or feeling like you’re the worst one in a photo. The constant comparing, the overanalyzing, the “am I enough?” voice. It’s exhausting. We get curious about all of it together, so there’s more room to actually feel like yourself.
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¹ Overthinking & Anxiety
Your brain replays the conversation, revisits the decision, and keeps wondering whether you got something wrong. We get curious about what keeps that loop going and what it could feel like to trust yourself without needing the perfect answer first
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² Self-Doubt to Self-Confidence
You’re good at noticing what everyone else needs. It can be harder to know what you want, disappoint someone, say no, or let yourself be fully seen. Therapy gives us room to notice those patterns and experiment with living less around other people’s approval.
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³ Body Image & Perfectionism
Obsessing over photos, your body, or comparing yourself to everyone else? We make room to understand the rules, comparisons, and expectations underneath that discomfort and begin relating to yourself differently.
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⁴ Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapy
Your brain works in its own way (and that’s not a problem!). We approach your thoughts and patterns in a way that makes sense for YOU, honouring how your mind runs without trying to force it into a neurotypical box.
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⁵ 2SLGBTQIA+ Affirming Therapy
Your identity belongs in the room, whether it’s part of why you’re seeking therapy or one part of the fuller picture of who you are. I welcome queer women and 2SLGBTQIA+ clients who want space to explore identity, relationships, expectations, belonging, and becoming more fully themselves.
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What Starts
to Shift:
You intercept the spiral
You get in your car after a coffee run and you’re not thinking about the way you said “you too” when they told you to enjoy your drink. It doesn’t turn into a whole thing anymore.
You trust your inner knowing
You make a decision and move on with your day instead of needing three opinions, two follow-ups, and a full post-mortem.
You vanquish the inner mean girl
You catch yourself starting to pick apart how you looked in a photo and then actually stop, put your phone down, and carry on.
You’re Finally Present
You’re out with people and you’re actually there. Present. Not half-listening while also tracking how you’re sitting, talking, laughing, existing. You’re just in it and living your life.
Okay… but What If You Just Trusted Yourself?
Like actually. Not for five minutes. But like for real.
Trust Yourself Again
Overthinking? Handled
Self-Doubt: Cancelled
2SLGBTQIA+ and
Neurodivergent—Affirming Therapy
Trust Yourself Again Overthinking? Handled Self-Doubt: Cancelled 2SLGBTQIA+ and Neurodivergent—Affirming Therapy
FAQs
I get asked these things a lot. Maybe it’s on your mind, too?
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Honestly? Because I get it.
The overthinking, the replaying, the “wait did I say something weird?” loops, the body image stuff, the constant second-guessing. I’m not confused by it and I’m not going to just nod along and give you surface-level tips. We are going deep and getting real.I’ll meet you where you’re at, but I’m also going to gently call you forward. This is a space where you’re understood and challenged (in the best way) so you can actually start trusting yourself, grow, and feel more solid in who you are.
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I offer in-person therapy sessions at my office in Hanover, Ontario, located at 478 10th Avenue.
I also offer virtual therapy across Ontario for folks who would rather connect from home (or their couch, bed, car, wrapped in a blanket…you get it). -
Yes I do! Because you can do this from your bed, your couch, your car, wrapped in a blanket, with a tea. Like let’s make this easy and accessible for YOU.
But also, virtual therapy means you’re not limited to who’s nearby. You get access to someone who actually specializes in what you’re dealing with. A lot of people feel more comfortable opening up when they’re in their own space too!
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It’s a relaxed 15-minute call where we talk through what’s been going on in your world.
You can ask questions, get a sense of how I work, and tell me about what you’re looking for. I’ll also let you know how I’d approach things and whether I think we’d work well together. No pressure, we’re just figuring out whether this feels comfortable and aligned for you.
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The first session is really about getting to know you. We’ll talk about what’s been going on, what’s feeling hard, and what you want to shift.
You don’t need to have it all figured out or explain it perfectly. You can ramble, go off track, circle back. We’ll make sense of it together. I’ll also start helping you understand some of the patterns underneath what’s been going on, so you leave feeling a little less stuck in it all.
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A 50-minute session is $145.
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Most sessions are 50 minutes, but I also on occasion offer 25-minute or 75-minute sessions if that makes more sense for what you need.
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A credit card is required on file for all appointment types.
You can also pay by e-transfer if that’s more your vibe. Your card will only be charged if a payment isn’t received. Payments are processed securely, so you don’t have to stress about the logistics and can just focus on your session.
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Yes! A lot of extended health benefits plans cover psychotherapy or counselling services.. It really depends on your specific plan, so it’s worth checking with your provider.
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After each session, you’ll get a receipt with all the info your insurance needs (license number, session details, etc.).
You just submit that to your insurance provider, and they’ll reimburse you based on your plan. Easy.
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Life happens, I get it. Just give at least 48 hours notice if you need to cancel or change your appointment.
If it’s less than 48 hours or a missed session, the full session fee may apply.
The Vibe Check
Tips, feels & real talk
Yes, it’s a blog, but way less boring. Quick thoughts, exercises, and reminders for your overthinking brain.
Self-Trust
Starter Pack
Free Mini PDF download
For anyone who can’t stop second-guessing themselves. Packed with quick tips, little exercises, and reminders you can stick to your fridge or save in the notes on your phone. It’s designed to help you notice overthinking and move forward with more self-trust..
Pause your overthinking before it takes over. A simple 3-second reset helps you step back, breathe, and stop the mental replay.